COMMITMENT
Asking Dale for four days
What you committed to
You asked, badly and unprepared, to talk in January about going to four days, and he did not say no.
How you are holding it
It came out in a corridor with no preparation at all, which is not how you do things. What you got back was let's put it in the diary properly, which could mean anything, and which is still more than two years of not asking ever produced.
Evidence
3 quotes
“And the asking, when it finally happened, was eleven seconds long, unprepared, between the kitchen and the stairs, and was better than any of the versions I had drafted, because the drafted ones were all built to survive a refusal and this one was just a sentence.”
Reinforced later
Read the entry →“He did not love it. He also did not say no. He said let's put it in the diary properly, which could mean anything, and which is more than I have had in two years of not asking.”
First mention
Read the entry →“And then — not planned, in a corridor, badly, with no preparation at all — I said that I want to talk in January about going to four days.”
First mention
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