PATTERN
Acknowledging the question warmly and then moving
What it is
When a question gets too close, you meet it warmly and then steer onto something else, and the other person usually lets you.
How it affects your life
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Evidence
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“I think I did not want to make a thing of it in case making a thing of it stopped him doing it.”
Reinforced later
Read the entry →“Laughed and changed the subject, obviously.”
Reinforced later
Read the entry →“I did not answer it. I did the thing where you acknowledge the question warmly and then move, and I moved us onto her sister and the apartment thing, and Tess let me, which she did not have to do.”
First mention
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