PATTERN
Saying you are fine so nobody has to worry
What it is
When someone might ask how you are, you head it off, because their worry would become one more thing you carry.
How it affects your life
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Evidence
3 quotes
“She said she did not want to worry me while I was working. I said that is not a thing you get to decide.”
Reinforced later
Read the entry →“If it became a conversation it would become a thing he worries about, and then I would be managing his worry about my eleven minutes on top of everything else I already carried home.”
First mention
Read the entry →“I would say I was fine, obviously. And then I would be annoyed that he accepted it, which is not a reasonable position to hold.”
First mention
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