PATTERN

Arguing his case for him, against myself

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What it is

When something would cost Danny something, you build his objection for him and then lose to it, without ever having asked him what he thinks.

How it affects your life

Tess put moving back on the table and you had the reasons ready, his book of work, his reputation, six years to build it. The one objection that survived was about his reputation, and he has never made it. Six months of a private argument with somebody who was not in the room.

Evidence

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