PATTERN
Fine beside a problem, sideways facing each other
What it is
You and Danny are completely fine put next to a physical problem, and it is the conversations with no object in them where you go sideways.
How it affects your life
Working the porch rail from opposite ends toward the middle, two hours and barely a word, is the version of the two of you that has never not worked. The fence went up in a weekend without a single sharp word. What is harder is the talking where there is nothing to look at except each other.
Evidence
Latest 5 of 10
“I stood in the yard with the dog for about twenty minutes and did not think about anything.”
Reinforced later
Read the entry →“I made a vat of coffee and took it up the ladder, which I was told not to do, and did anyway.”
Reinforced later
Read the entry →“We sat on the step for a while afterwards with the dog between us and did not say anything much, and it was the best twenty minutes of the month.”
Reinforced later
Read the entry →“It is just that tonight I wanted thirty seconds of somebody else being scared about it so I did not have to be the only one holding that part.”
Reinforced later
Read the entry →“It always comes up in the car, because neither of us has to look at the other one and there is a natural end to it when we arrive somewhere.”
Reinforced later
Read the entry →
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