WOUND
Being the last to know
What the wound is
You are not frightened of being short of money, you have been short of money, you are frightened of being the last to know that you are, which is a different fear with a different cause.
How it shows up in your life
It hides inside reasonable money worry because reasonable money worry is allowed. Your mother did the same arithmetic at the same table every January and you were fine, so the sums themselves are familiar ground. What is not familiar ground is the second fear, which you keep dressing as the first one because the first one is reasonable and the second one is an accusation, and the accusation is against Danny.
Evidence
4 quotes
“I think it is: tell me the whole of something before I find it out. Once. On purpose, when you do not have to.”
Reinforced later
Read the entry →“I keep treating it as though it were the first one because the first one is reasonable and the second one is an accusation.”
First mention
Read the entry →“I am frightened of being the last to know that we are short of money, which is an entirely different fear with an entirely different cause.”
First mention
Read the entry →“I am not frightened of being short of money. We have been short of money.”
First mention
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