RELATIONSHIP
Priyanka Rao
Who they are to you
Your supervisor, who uses the same silence you teach second-year students and who named out loud that supervision is not the same as support.
How this shows up between you
She is where you take the client who has not moved in four months. She let you talk for ten minutes, asked what you do with it at the end of the day, and when you said everybody needs a container she asked whose yours was. Not unkind, accurate.
Evidence
Latest 5 of 12
“She said: and now I know that too. Which was not a threat and was definitely a move.”
Reinforced later
Read the entry →“At the end she said the thing I knew was coming and have been outrunning since May: that this is work for my own therapy and not for supervision, and that she is not going to keep being the only room it gets said in.”
Reinforced later
Read the entry →“She said: so you have been holding a four-year-old open loop and calling it resolved because nobody is shouting.”
Reinforced later
Read the entry →“What I did instead was write it on the back of my notes so I would bring it to Priyanka, which is not much, but it is the first time I have deliberately routed one of these somewhere rather than carrying it.”
Reinforced later
Read the entry →“And she said: and what do you do when a client says that.”
Reinforced later
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