OPEN QUESTION
Saying the checking out loud in that room
The question
Whether to say to a supervisor, in a professional setting, that you check your fiancé's bank statements, which would turn a private oddity into a thing about your relationship that somebody else knows.
What hangs on it
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Evidence
5 quotes
“She did not react in any of the ways I had rehearsed.”
Reinforced later
Read the entry →“That I have been reading four years of bank statements for a number I would not recognise, and that I have never told him”
Reinforced later
Read the entry →“because I had already decided in the car park that I was going to and had not let myself reconsider on the stairs — I told her about the drawer”
Reinforced later
Read the entry →“the second I say it in that room it stops being a private oddity and becomes a thing about my relationship that somebody else knows. I am not ready for it to be that.”
First mention
Read the entry →“I would have had to say out loud, to a supervisor, in a professional setting, that I check my fiancé's bank statements.”
First mention
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